Huberman says to avoid THESE 3 things if you want to even try being happy

In a powerful discussion between neuroscientist Andrew Huberman and author Michael Easter, a sharp critique of modern comfort and its psychological consequences emerges. The conversation was centered on Easter’s book The Comfort Crisis. It reveals a troubling pattern: in trying to make life easier, we’ve inadvertently sabotaged the very things that make it fulfilling. From dopamine addiction to frictionless living, Huberman and Easter identify three key traps that must be avoided to even begin approaching real happiness: sports betting, speed, and junk food.

Comfort

Easter’s research suggests that our ultra-comfortable lifestyles have divorced us from the kind of effortful living our ancestors thrived on. In the past, discomfort was unavoidable. People walked thousands of steps daily, carried heavy loads, endured temperature swings, and engaged in long periods of real human connection.

Today, our environment has been optimized for ease: food on demand, perfect climate control, and infinite entertainment within arm’s reach. Yet rather than bringing peace, this has placed us on what Easter calls a “neurotic treadmill.” As true problems disappear, we redefine minor irritants as crises, lowering our emotional resilience and raising dissatisfaction.

Betting

Huberman warns that sports betting has become one of the most potent new addictions, largely because of its speed and ease of access. What once required a casino visit now takes seconds on a smartphone.

Micro-bets on individual plays in live games mimic the addictive mechanisms of slot machines, providing frequent, rapid, dopamine-fueled stimulation. This “frictionless foraging” is deeply problematic because it mimics reward while draining our dopamine reserves. According to Huberman, the danger isn’t just in the money lost. It’s in the biological toll of constant dopamine “spending” rather than investing it in rewarding, effortful experiences.

Food

Another landmine is junk food, specifically engineered to exploit what Easter calls the three V’s: value, variety, and velocity. These foods are cheap, come in countless flavors, and are designed for rapid, mindless consumption.

This over-stimulation of the brain’s reward system keeps people chasing fleeting pleasure while steadily degrading physical and mental health. It’s not just about calories—it’s about neural depletion. Like social media and gambling, junk food hijacks our reward circuits with zero long-term payoff.

Dopamine

At the heart of Huberman’s neuroscience approach is a distinction between dopamine investment and dopamine spending. Most modern comforts fall into the latter: low-effort activities that feel good briefly but leave us drained and unmotivated.

Investment, on the other hand, requires effort but builds long-term satisfaction and resilience. Exercise, meaningful work, social connection, and “masogi”—Easter’s term for annual extreme challenges—are examples of activities that refill, rather than deplete, our internal reserves.

Speed

Speed, Huberman emphasizes, is the unifying danger behind all these pitfalls. From the near-instantaneous swipe of dating apps to the rapid-fire scrolling of social media, modern life accelerates everything, reducing friction and increasing dependency.

Slot machines evolved from mechanical levers to buttons precisely because faster play increased addiction. In the same way, modern digital life is engineered to keep us hooked by delivering fast, frequent, and shallow hits of dopamine, leaving us emotionally bankrupt.

Friction

Both experts agree: the path forward isn’t rejecting comfort entirely, but reintroducing strategic discomfort. Easter talked about his “2% rule.” It is the observation that only 2% of people take the stairs when escalators are available.

Those small, difficult choices compound into greater well-being. Cold showers, long walks, tech detoxes, and physically demanding challenges aren’t just trendy, they recalibrate our dopamine systems and increase our tolerance for discomfort, which paradoxically increases happiness.

According to Huberman and Easter, if you want a shot at real happiness, avoid the traps of sports betting, junk food, and hyper-speed consumption. These may appear as harmless indulgences, but they represent a deeper threat: a rewiring of our brains to crave ease and avoid effort.

As Huberman and Easter argue, true fulfillment comes not from eliminating friction, but from deliberately embracing it. Our biology evolved for struggle, movement, and connection, not endless scrolling, artificial flavor bursts, and dopamine on tap.